Wednesday 24 December 2014

12 Days of Christmas



According to The Oxford Dictionary of Nursery Rhymes, "Importance [certainly has] long been attached to the Twelve Days, when, for instance, the weather on each day was carefully observed to see what it would be in the corresponding month of the coming year."

Well if that is true, looking at the 2 week forecast for the UK, it's going to be a dry spring, cloudy summer and heavy rain in September.  I guess there may be something in this after all?  If I look at the forecast for Canada that would give us snow in July and August so maybe as a folk law it only works in Blighty.

So, these 12 days are meant to represent a cessation of work and 12 feast days as we say thank you for the year past and set things in place for a great year ahead.  Judging by the number of Out Of Office emails I got yesterday the cessation of work is certainly true.  I have ceased work for the week and am in that limbo of too tired to do anything, too bored to sit still.  Earlier this week someone refered to that as having a "monkey brain"...always moving and bouncing around.  Sounds about right.



Christmas Day tomorrow.  Three days ago I double checked with my husband that we were invoking the $25 a present rule ( I have bought him a DVD, who said romance was dead!). "Oh no, that was last year when we had no money" he told me.  Crap! What to buy, what to buy? And how funny that he thinks we now have money, bless him.  He reminded me that he wants a new razor but could I find the model anywhere? No. So yesterday, defeated, I emailed him at work to go to Walmart and buy it and I'll wrap it up. I found the present that he bought me hidden in the wardrobe.  By accident...honest.  It's wrapped up so I can't see what it is but the smart money is on one of those coffee machines that you put capsules in.   Ooh I hope so.

So back to 12 days and 12 months...every year for the last five years I have created a vision board for the year ahead. Sounds weird maybe but I believe that if you visualize and articulate what you want it will happen. Some say that it is the universe responding to your rhythms, others that the frontal part of your brain is now consciously seeking what you want.  Whichever, thinking about it and planning it will make it happen.  They say "be careful what you wish for" and that is why.

This year for the first time I also created a 12 month wall of activities...post it notes of fun stuff that I want to do each month.  I was staring at that wall planner earlier...it's huge, 5 foot by 4 foot.  And I have completed 38 of the things posted this year, just three things undone, maybe 2.5 because sometimes opportunities come along that are not quite what you wished for, but an interpretation of that wish.  If you fancy trying this visualization and planning then my friend Louise runs a cool online course starting next month.  There is a link to it on the right of this page.  I have taken it twice...it's a really great way to live the life you want rather than have days passing and you are flowing with the tide.

Next week I will visualize 2015...don't leave any magazines lying around as I will be ripping and tearing.  Scissors? No way, I do it old school.

Merry Christmas!

Saturday 20 December 2014

Afternoon nap with Graham Norton

Four more sleeps or is it five. Dunno. Head is groggy with a winter cold. I have taken to my bed on a Saturday afternoon whilst small person watches Stampy Cat on my laptop and my husband is out present shopping. Feels like a hangover but it isn't honestly.  Although alcohol has certainly played a part in my weight gain this last year,  not so much the wine as the snacks I trough down after a class of "sav" as the wine shop lady calls it.  Having spent many long days at work since the summer I have concluded that you can drink too much wine if you work in HR...others will argue that no amount is too much.  So as I recover from or move into a horrid cold I have declared Christmas to be alcohol free chez moi. We'll see how that pans out.  See if we can make it to NYE, then maybe have some fizz.

Small person broke up from school yesterday, and is very excited and shiny. "It's the weekend now for 14 days!". He has Art Camp on Monday which he will love...they will be making wrapping paper as well as splash painting a canvas. Love that place.  Christmas starts on Tuesday for me, when I shall switch off the work PC until 29th.  Christmas Day will start early on 25th around 6.30am then there will be 2 hours pleading to open other gifts before we give in and drag ourselves downstairs.  Hopefully Santa will have left a surprise gift under the tree...an XBOX One.  I have resisted all requests for video games up until now.  He's 48 for God sake, make do with the iPad!  But having seen small person dancing to Just Dance on the iPad I knew what we had to do. There is talk of MineCraft which we have avoided til now, but given that small person watches videos of other people's games I guess it's not a huge leap to let him build his own world. The family farm that we inherited from him, on Hay Day, just doesn't cut it any more.

So off to sleep now for an afternoon nap, listening to Graham Norton on tinternet...I wonder what Santa is bringing me this year?